It has been WAY to long since I have posted last.
I have been going through SO much change it is crazy, but on today's subject is reflection.
Not the type you might see in a pool or mirror exactly, but more on that later.
When I talk to people, and I talk to a lot of people, I always find it interesting. People, other beings that have their own life, their own stories.
When I talk to them, sometimes they will be angry or sad, or happy.
Of course the happy ones are my favorite and then the sad ones, and last.. the angry ones.
It can be hard to the angry ones. What is important, and I can't stress this enough, is that when they are angry or show different emotions, WE are not the ones they are angry at.
They are simply reflecting on themselves. Hurt people, hurt people.
They are taking their wounds and pain, out on you.
They are taking their worries and fears, out on you.
They are taking their sorrows and tears, out on you
They are taking their joys and triumphs, out on you.
We reflect ourselves to others. This is why it is so important to know your self. Self reflection is a rare find these days, because who like to see their faults as well as their talents?
This is to all of you out there, who deal with hurt people on a daily basis. Every person that you meet is a hurt person, whether now or in the future or the past, at some point they will be hurt.
In dealing with yourself, you are most likely to dealing with a hurt person.
We need to all take a moment and reflect on ourselves. Look into that mirror and see yourself truly for who and what you are. Do not hide anything, look at the beauty and the ugliness.
This is necessary to grow.
If we are stuck in a place where we can't see ourselves, I can't think of a worse fate, for then everyone else will see something that we ourselves are not aware of, or that we CHOOSE not to see.
Don't be fooled, what we see IS a choice when we look into that mirror.
What/who do you see?
All this to say 1.When you get off the phone with someone who was truly hurtful, realize it isn't you, but themselves they are showing.
Everyone will show who they really are in time.
And 2. It is perhaps one of the most important abilities you will ever have, to see, to TRULY see yourself for who you really are.
Fly High.